LOVE




Love is all about what we give. At all times, you don’t need to be on the receiving end; sometimes you need to be on the giving side.

Everything in this world is connected with love. There are different forms of love: a mother’s love, a sister’s love, a father’s love, a brother’s love, a friend’s love, etc.
This kind of love means care, affection, and concern. But today, I am not going to speak about this type of love in this blog.

(Disclaimer: In this blog, I am sharing my personal point of view. I am not justifying that my opinions are right. Everyone has different opinions.)

Love – Kaadhal

I don’t believe that love comes from the beauty of a girl or a boy. Love doesn’t begin with looks alone. I completely reject the idea of love at first sight, but I don’t truly understand it. If love comes from first sight, isn’t it just attraction rather than love?

Most of us are inspired by this idea through cinema. I came to know about “love at first sight” mainly through Tamil cinema (Kollywood).

I especially want to talk about the movie “Remo” (2016). At that time, I was in school. Honestly, I enjoyed the movie a lot back then, especially the songs. I used to randomly hum those songs in class—that’s how much I liked it.


But now, my opinion about the movie is completely opposite. The lead roles were played by Sivakarthikeyan (SK) and Keerthy Suresh. In the story, the girl is already engaged to someone else, and the hero knows this very well. Even then, he tries to seduce her in the name of love.

When I think about it now, it feels like stalking. In reality, it is a crime. But in cinema, there is an unspoken rule: if a hero does such things, he is portrayed as a good guy. If the same actions are shown with horror or dark background music, the character is labeled as a villain.
(Tamil cinema has many dark sides to discuss—we can save that for a separate blog.)

Love is all about understanding. It is not about beauty. It is not about money. It is not about guilt. It is not even about the future—because when understanding in love is at its peak, the future naturally follows.

In my opinion, love is not a short-term process. It takes time and effort. One of the main reasons for breakups is a lack of understanding. True love is not about giving up easily. Sometimes, one person may need to hold on while the other lets go, and understanding this itself is a pure form of love.

I don’t believe that “mutual understanding” alone defines love. If love is only about mutual understanding, then love loses its depth. Love exists beyond just balance—it needs effort, sacrifice, and patience.



My Question: Why Is Love Needed?

The answer is simple. We all face different situations in life with different emotions. At all times, we need care from someone. We desire to be cared for. We long for someone’s shoulder to lean on.

Science says that most people emotionally seek the shoulder of the opposite gender, which is why many of us search for someone in the name of love or lover. But I want to say this clearly: people search for love, not a lover.

Love is not only about receiving; it is also about giving. Find people who genuinely give love and keep them close to you. They will take care of you.

Happy New Year.
New year, new beginnings.
Happy 2026.
Spread more love from this year onward. ❤️




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